It’s been a lazy morning, a rare day in my hectic life. We are only days into the three-week lockdown in India and the gravity of the worldwide havoc created by the COVID-19 virus is deeply concerning. We are staring at an uncertain future and against an unknown enemy. The lessons I learnt from cricket are very relevant now. As the situation demands, we have to take fresh guard, read the pitch, manage the swing and bounce and above all, be circumspect. Those words we’ve heard a million times — application and temperament — are really the key in life too. Nobody wants to give his wicket away!
For me and my family, our lives are in reboot mode and believe me, it’s one of the best phases we have had at home together. From Arjun, the youngest member in the family at 20, to my mother, who is 83, we are witnessing how one reacts to a situation variably as per one’s age. We all have different tastes and choices but for me, this period is a test of acceptability and adaptability. Collectively, we must really think for each other — for India’s 1.3 billion people, and for our global community at large.
Stay in the Pavilion!
There is no pressure of meetings and stepping out of home is an absolute no-no. Sleeping well, going to the gym, a leisurely breakfast, a lunch of my choice and then it’s time for some family entertainment. My mother must be the happiest seeing her son and grandchildren away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. As a family, we are doing those simple things — watching TV serials, playing games and eating together —things that we otherwise tend to miss quite regularly.
As I said, ‘accept’ and ‘adapt’…that works whether it’s a hard top at Perth or a crumbling fifth-day Nagpur pitch, or life. The better we accept this situation and follow the simple do’s and don’ts, the faster we combat the fear factor, and higher the chance that we survive…and thrive. With this crisis, ‘adapting’ calls for a sterner reappraisal of our playing style itself! As a family, we have accepted that Coronavirus is a challenge to humankind and we need to revisit the whole way we lead our lives.
No ‘Upar’ Cuts, Please
What’s good? For one, it’s quite incredible to see the whole world united against a common foe. And what’s not? Well, when a few people callously flout the basic precautions, I find it very disturbing. Clearly, it’s a matter of discipline and trusting the information shared by credible health organizations. I have been saying these in my messages for UNICEF, so do guard against fake news! And play within yourself. For me, this has been the time to introspect and plan ahead. I feel a person who utilizes this time properly will always be a step ahead of the other person who thinks he has nothing to do at home.
The Doctor Is ‘In’
What better than having a doctor wife at home in this hour of need! Anjali has been making sure that we constantly wash our hands and keep ourselves sanitized. This includes the people who help us at home. We have stopped guests at home — for one thing, it’s not allowed; and with my mother being at a vulnerable age, we are extremely careful about who’s meeting her.
I am glad our children have grasped the challenges and are doing their bit by making our lives easier at home. A lockdown can be quite challenging for young girls and boys but both Sara and Arjun have understood the repercussions of what a wrong step could mean. As parents, we have tried to keep them mentally stimulated and that means spending a lot of quality time together, going to the gym with each other, eating home-cooked food, watching the TV serials and movies we love and, of course, music.
Of Varan-Bhaat and Bharta
I have tried testing my cooking skills a bit, but here too I tend to play in the ‘V’! which means sticking to the basics and having simple, normal home food — baigan bharta (roasted and mashed brinjal dish) is my favorite, so also varan-bhaat (a Marathi dish consisting of lentils and white rice). A bit of chicken adds to the spread, like that four off the last ball. We are foodies at home but there is so much sense in eating basic stuff. It is distressing to hear of the conditions out there, with lots of people not getting even basic food or ration.
Pink Floyd se Panga…
We have been watching the latest serials and movies on TV. We enjoyed the series Special Ops that showed how our security agencies use intelligence to combat terror and keep us safe. We also saw Panga, the Kangana Ranaut-starring sports movie on the life of a kabaddi player. Also Good News, Chhapaak — and among series, Truth Be Told, and Formula 1: Drive to Survive Season 2. Knowing my love for cars, Anjali has also recommended a few documentary series on Formula One and I can’t wait to watch them.
But what’s binding us all together is a lot of music. I am a music freak and I have enjoyed a lot from the ’70s onwards. Generally, I can enjoy any good music. I may be listening to a Hindi song one minute, but five minutes later it could be a Spanish one. We are also enjoying plenty of unplugged versions on YouTube. Pink Floyd has been simply awesome. So also Coldplay, Dire Straits and U2, and any number of Hindi singers…. But the children love modern songs and here too we have to show our sense of adaptability in accommodating their choices!
Rain Stops Play
Finally, I must appreciate the call taken by the International Olympic Committee to postpone the Tokyo Olympics in July-August. I won’t be surprised if the IPL is deferred too. These are challenging times and rescheduling sporting events or canceling them outright is the right way forward. We can’t afford to lose any more lives. We already have lost many. There are solutions for all other sorts of challenges but death is an irreparable loss. We must learn to live united at these times by maintaining social distancing but emotionally, we must be together.
I have been part of a World Cup-winning team in 2011 when we fulfilled the dreams of a billion people and I know what adulation means. But when I think of the hundreds of health workers and other personnel who are confronting the COVID-19 virus by putting their lives at risk, I feel their levels of achievement and commitment are immeasurable. They are our real-world champions. Let us all do our bit and ensure that their efforts do not go waste.
A Credo for the Corona Age
Sport, they say, is a great leveler, cuts across boundaries and knows no caste, color or creed. The script you are handed in sport is always an open one, and it’s never perfect. The more one reflects on it, the more I see parallels with life. This virus too has been a true leveler. It has affected all of humankind, no matter what your status is. While we fight against it, we must focus on the brighter side. It offers us a chance, like a difficult pitch, to unmask our deficiencies — including a lot of our prejudices and beliefs. Also, it gives us time to introspect and look at humanity’s effect on our planet as a whole. How, in the middle of it all, nature has found space and time to breathe and heal.
For now, it’s stumps, folks! We are all together in this challenging match. Let’s follow all the precautionary measures shared by the authorities. Let’s pad up and wear our guards and helmets. We will come out of it stronger.
(As told to Soumitra Bose)
An article by Outlook India